Get Out of Your OWN Way

Women have an idea or vision of what we want our soul mate to be. We know what we want him to look like and how he dresses from head to toe. We hear his voice and know exactly how he will speak; every verb, noun, the slang or not and if he stutters or has a lisps. His walk and posture are sketched in out minds and is only gone when he walks away. And his very own scent lingers in our minds all day. He is and always will be specifically what I want. I mean, God did say, be specific! No detail of him is left out. So, the specific standards are set, we go forth and find.

We seem to find exactly what we were looking for over and over again. But for some reason the relationship(s) don't work. So we look again and again, to only be disappointed once Again. We do seem to find him repaeatedly only in different packages. We seem find him with major details missing. So we look again, with the missing details added this time to only fall short again. At the end of the day-what we've been looking may have been what we wanted but definately not hat we needed.

I'm not saying lowering our set standards are the answer. Standards are good but detailed standards are better. And after each relationship a new more detailed standard was added, providing more guidance for the next. But how long does this or can this go on? As the cycle continues great possibilities may have been missed.

It's been said repeadetly that there are "no good men out there". But where is everyone looking? Obviously the places that were searched before only produced the same results. No results-ended relationships and still, the sad single woman syndrome. As the missed opportunities walk by, many find them selves saying..."but he doesn't seem like anybody I would "He doesn't look like any of the men I've ever been with before." Hmmmm, maybe not but, he's probably what's needed.

All the specific Mr. Rights have been wrong and the guy who looks and seems like he's all wrong, maybe actaually Mr. Right!!!!

Sometimes we just gotta get out of our own way.