3SUM

I swear my life needs to be a TV show or a movie...I'm gonna start working on it, I promise. And I'm sure, just by the title your already wondering. *LOL* WTF Sharp, so here goes another crazy hmmmm, situation maybe better word circumstance...

Soooo, I was not remotely interested in Facebook...but my best friend opened my account and I have since reconnected with lots of old friends, have networked with some cool fashion industry folks, and have connected with some new friends as well. I get all type of friend requests and try to be pretty selective about who I confirm. When I get inbox messages I always ask the who are you, how do I know you, how did I meet you etc. I also get the general compliments here and there. So, I'm use to the whole facebook friends and even facebook crush thing.

But a message that I wasn't ready for was..."you are beautiful. and my friend has a huge crush on you. we would love to get to know you, spoil you and fulfill your fantasies. please reply if your interested" OK, OK, OK....I know you're probably thinking. Hell no and WTF"! and would have defriended them immediately. Yeah, I know. But I sometimes walk on the wild side and I have to admit I was very intrigued.... So, I replied. *LMAO*

We have in boxed back and forth a few times, eventually exchanged e-mails and I have their numbers... Guess the ball is in my court to actually call. *LOL*...The e-mails were all very informative and they both happen to be really cute (
Of course I asked for pictures). Oh, so are you wondering about the couple and what the 3 sum would entail...2 guys and me? 1 guy, his chic and me? Can you believe 2 chics want to have a 3SUM with me?!?! *LMAO* WOW, my life...I swear I can't make this shit up!!!!

Destiny

A lot of people may not believe in astrology and the cosmos, but I absolutely do!!! My thesis, in obtaining my masters was "Astrology and You". I absolutely believe that your zodiac sign has everything to do with who you are as a person. I believe that when you were born and your character are directly correlated. I respect it to the utmost. The stars and the planets rotate, and believe it or not directly effect who we are and will be....

And with that said...I like tarrot cards and palm readers. In the past few years I've obtained my own destiny reader. I was a skeptic, but eventually believed... when she did my first reading and told me, I had babies in my future. I laughed it off; then came my daughter. She also read my son's future of private school and ultimate success; funny...my son is in private school and kicking ass. She also told me about the divorce of my husband. We know how that turned out. I tried hard to reject alot of her information, but things have come to pass, without fail. She has been very informative in various aspects of my life. She's been on point and almost scary to say the least...

Now fast forward to May 2010, she gave me a reading and to date...EVERYTHING is happening...My company is doing well. My children are and will continue to be successful. She provided info about my parents and social/love life. And most interesting and enlightening is that I'm in my Venus. And what exactly does that mean you ask....welp in lamens terms; men will be drawn to me, want me, want to be with, around and help me. And WOW!!!! The men have been coming out of the wood work. It's been crazy. Everywhere I go the men are there in my face. It's more than I've ever experienced. No complaints at all, but I wasn't expecting it. My networking and contract opportunities have increased. And the amount of men that seem to want to go out with me has also increased...CRAZY!

So, I believe in destiny. I believe that people are destined to meet. I believe that people are destined to be and do specific things. And with destiny, regardless of deviations from the journey if it is meant to happen, it will.

Attention Seeker

I think it's important that women love themselves, keep themselves up, be confident, be and stay sexy for themselves. I also think a little attention from the opposite sex helps me love me more. Makes me want to stay on top of my game. So, I think dressing up, throwing on some make up (a little or a lot, whatever suits your fancy) and just simply going to the grocery store to get a little attention is good for the soul. There is also shopping and buying yourself something nice, a spa treatment can work, maybe working out, or maybe just some you time. Whatever it takes to love you! I love me! And it's OK to say it and do it.

My self love is SHOES (that's the buying myself something nice part), I like putting on make-up (especially eyelashes) and my newest thing is my new push up bra. And every once in awhile, I get dressed-throw on some make-up (mascara and lip gloss), my new bra, jeans and cute shoes. (I feel good when I look good) And then head out for some simple attention.

I Luv football, so on a Sunday...I'll head to a local bar and order a beer. Yes a beer, men pay attention to women that drink beer. And I engross my self in the game(s). At some point, some guy may get up the courage to actually speak. Whether he speaks or not is not the point. But I saw him looking.

Now don't get me wrong, I'm quite secure and definitely don't need a man to validate my sexiness. But it's nice to see them watch and nice to know I still got it.

Women take so much time and energy loving everybody else, that we can sometimes overlook ourselves. Self love is good, no it's GREAT and we should do it more often!!! Whatever, your approach. Like NIKE...just do it!

So, I'm headed to Chili's...